I was finally able to watch Super Soul Sunday today, something I haven’t been able to do in months. The episode I saw was a rerun with Joel Osteen. Toward the end of the episode, Joel and Oprah both used variations of the phrase, “Everything that happens to you, happens for you.” I think Joel phrased it, “Nothing happens to you, it happens for you.”
No matter how you say it, this is a fantastic concept. Especially for seekers.
A few weeks ago I shared one of my favorite mental exercises. The above speaks to another workout I try to incorporate each day—learn something from every person or situation I come in contact with. This helps me:
- Value others
- Value positive and negative situations
- Test my core values
- Determine what’s real vs. imagined
- Reaffirm my wants vs. needs
Essentially, I try to pay attention to the world around me and the messages I am being sent or asked to deliver. Not in a narcissistic way, but in a way that encourages personal growth and connection with other people. For example, someone may feel I need a “You got this,” and deliver that message just when I need it. I want to be present enough to do that for someone else.
So go on, for the betterment of the human race, be self-absorbed and listen for the messages being sent to you every day.
